Wednesday, May 31, 2006

I read a book!

I swear I am addicted to books!

Today's finished reading was "Getting Started on Home Learning - How and Why to Teach Your Kids at Home" by Rebecca Rupp.

Loved it. A short book with lots of resources. Loved reading entries from her logs when her kids were growing up. These kinds of books really give me ideas and encouragement.

Quotes from the book? Two that I made a note to remember.

One from Ralph Waldo Emerson

"What is Success?"

What is success?
To laugh often and much;
To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of  children;
To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty;
To find the best in others;
To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition;
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived;
That is to have succeeded.

Also, from the writer,

"Often states or local school districts demand that homeschoolers take achievement test either annually or in the same years as the public school kids. In the public schools, classroom teachers are not held accountable for poor achievement test scores, and low scores are generally not seen-at least by school officials-as a good reason for pulling a child out of school. Homeschooling parents, unfortunately, ARE held accountable for low achievement scores, which can be used as a reason to terminate homeschooling permission and insist that a child be enrolled in school."

Wednesday

Ok, so I took Tom to school this morning (12 more days!) because my husband is busy trying to fill in the holes he dug for the sprinklers in the back yard. Jake is helping. Came home, fed Jake, started laundry and cleaning. The whole house is a total wreck right now. All weekend and Monday and Tuesday Dan has been working on the backyard which is all dirt now. So there is dirt all over the house (and I mean piles of dirt here) because we have three children and two dogs and well...you know. I have refused to clean it up, thinking it would all be done in a few days and then I would only clean it up once. HA! So I did some cleaning today.

In between sporadic cleaning, I entertained Jake. We built (or shall I say tried to build a hot wheels set), played legos, water painted, played "How Many Bugs in a Box" computer game (best $5 I ever spent).

Then it was time to get Tom from school. Jake always falls asleep on the way there even though it only takes about 10 minutes! We get there early and then while he sleeps and we wait for school to let out, I read.

On the way home we decided to stop at the Discovery Science Center, had lunch, and spent some time exploring stuff. Then we came home.

I watered the yard and made mud and the boys played in it. I filled up some of the holes for Dan, but didn't get far before the boys were throwing mud and dribbling it on each others head. After a few angry warnings, I had to bring them in. I hosed them down in the shower and then we sat and read a couple books.

Dad got home and we ordered Pizza and watched "The Pirate Movie".

It has been a busy day!

Sunday, May 28, 2006

Reason we choose to homeschool #1

Already, with Tom only in Kindergarten and Jake not even in school yet, the school hours and days dictate our lives. Chores, family time, baths, and sleep all revolve around what time school starts, lets out, or vacations.

Saturday, May 27, 2006

Saturday Mornings

I always get up early, like  5:30, every day, but on Saturdays when Jake calls me to come get him out of bed, I lay down next to him and usually we go right back to sleep! He is so snugly warm, I just can't help it.

The Whistler

Yesterday afternoon while working in the yard, Jake spies the man that walks his dog in the neighborhood and whistles driving all the other dogs around crazy. We have referred to him in the past as "The Whistler". When he sees him, Jake yells, "There he is! The whistler is coming!" Tom quiets him and tells him it isn't polite to yell that at him. At 5 1/2 he has learned that you shouldn't call people any names and especially not to them!

Thursday, May 25, 2006

We're officially homeschooling these boys!

Thursday's I help at school in Tom's classroom. We always have lunch together with the other kids. It is really great because I totally see what happens in the classroom and how it works and then I also see how the lunch room works and recess too. We've had problems with lunch and recess before. The people working there seem to have complete lack of respect or understanding of children. But I digress. This message is about today!

There we are at lunch. Tom is nibbling away and talking to his friends. We were cracking them up with some really great knock knock jokes. I see out of the corner of my eye, one of the lunch ladies hand motioning to line up...I think that is what she was doing. Some of the kids started to pack up and go line up to go outside. Tom is still nibbling, looking around at the others. I asked him if he was ready to go out side, if he was done eating. At first he says yes and starts to put his lunch away, then he keeps eating. He is acting strange, like he is really nervous. This goes on for a couple minutes and then he looks at me and falls apart, crying. He said he doesn't know what he is supposed to do because they changed the rules. They used to dismiss whole rows of tables if they were ALL completely quiet. Then they went to dismissing tables one at a time, then individuals, now I guess you just get up and leave. Well, Tom is always trying so hard to follow the rules and now he doesn't know what they are and he doesn't want to get in trouble. On top of that he has said before that he can't understand the lunch ladies because he thinks they don't speak the same language as him. That I understand because they are all Spanish speakers and usually talk to the kids in Spanish and their English is hard for me to understand too. I hold him and calm him down and then he wants to spend recess with me. 

So we go work in his classroom. The combination of the lack of rules and the fact that so many kids were yelling and running, just threw him for a loop. He just couldn't take anymore. He was calming down when we went to cut some paper for his teacher but then I couldn't take it anymore. I got down on my knees and told him that Dad and I had been talking about homeschooling instead and if he wanted we would do that for first grade until he wanted to try school again. The kid literally melted. You could actually see his entire body relaxing as he said "You mean finish Kindergarten, summer vacation, and no first grade?" I almost started crying. My poor nervous child.

I talked to Dad and he totally agrees with it. Nikki was always labeled "sensitive to noise and movement" like it was a symptom. Maybe they are just the kind of person that like quiet instead of noise. Maybe they are the kind that will go on camp outs instead of amusement parks (like WE do!)
Anyway. This is going to be wonderful. Dad told him tonight and Tom was so confident of his "decision" to stay home. He really makes me proud.

Wednesday, May 24, 2006

California Science Center

 A most wonderful afternoon was spent at the science center in LA!






Tuesday, May 23, 2006

A Nice Day

Jake and I went to Irvine park this morning to meet a Christian Homeschool group. We had a good time. Jake loves to show off for people he doesn't know, jumping off of things and climbing over high railings. Then we went for a walk and fed the ducks. We had lunch together on a bench by the lake. It was a beautiful day.

Monday, May 22, 2006

Oh what a fabulously boring day!

This morning I did laundry and dishes while Jake decided to cut things out of a magazine. Then we put a lego car together and had lunch. It was pretty exciting.

I got more books from the library including "Einstein never used flash cards" and started reading it while waiting for Tom to get out of class. Jake always falls asleep on the way there.

On the way home we stopped and got new Darth Vader tennis shoes for both of them and they are still wearing them. SURPRISE! Jake has been wearing rubber boots since he was three and then for Christmas this year Great-Grandpa got him cowboy boots. The rubber ones had completely worn down flat. I'm talking about the black ones from Wal-Mart. He has been wearing the cowboy boots every day since Christmas (except when he is being a worker, then he wears his tan work boots). Grandma Ann told him about General Patton wearing cowboys boots so now it is ok that he wears them while he is a soldier.

Then we stopped at Chuck E Cheese for a soda and salad. We had some extra tokens left from the last time we were there. I love playing games with them. They take them all so seriously.

When we went out to the truck we noticed that one tire was pretty flat so when we got home we had to get out the air compressor and fill them up. We checked them all, found out what PSI means and how to check it, and filled up the tires. Then they both took turns starting the truck and then driving down the alley. Yes, I let my 4 and 5 year old drive! They were sitting on my lap and we weren't on the street anyway. They get such a huge kick out of being in control of the steering wheel even if they don't get to turn!

Now we are waiting for Nikki and Grandma to get home. I'm waiting for coffee. Oh! And Jake and I read this great book of poems called "Toasting Marshmallows - Camping Poems". I love that he will sit and let me read just about anything to him. The best was that he was telling me about all the things he remembered from camping last summer. I can't wait to camp again now!

Cooking

The boys helped me make corn bread this afternoon. Fun stuff! If you can take two boys in the kitchen vying for attention. I believe we may have to separate them next time.

Let's see, corn meal (history), science, fractions, patience, small motor skills (breaking eggs), anything else?

Sunday, May 21, 2006

Doom

The boys asked Dad, "When can we play Doom on the computer?" 
Dad says, "When Mom is done working." 
The boys say "She isn't working, she's playing solitaire!"
Dad says "When Mom is done researching probability, then we can play Doom!"

One of "the" homeschool questions

A friend asked one of "the" homeschool questions. You know, the "How do you know if they are learning if you don't test them?" question. I answered her that I knew she was intelligent and I have never given her a test. But then I started thinking more about that. When you are working at a job, how do the people around you know that you know what you are doing? Do they give you a written test? No, they know because you perform the job and take care of the tasks you are given in an intelligent manner. The same is true for children in a small setting like a family group. In a larger group of children, like in a classroom setting, you may have to result to a written or verbal "test" because you don't have the time to observe each child doing what they do. You don't know if they are using the information they are getting from the books they've read, shows they have watched, people they have talked to, and places they have been.

Saturday, May 20, 2006

Skyway

Tom and Jake spent two hours building the "skyway" with Dad this morning.
It is a piece of string lawn trimmer line tied between two chairs. Then they all build cars to slide down it. They have to build something that will slide, balance, and not flip off the line. Then they try to build landing areas so they don't crash and break at the bottom.
I think that is enough "school" for today!