Last night, Tom came running in with a novelty pen that we had gotten at Yellowstone National Park a few years ago. It has a couple glass bulbs at the end filled with blue liquid. When you hold one bulb between you fingers the liquid boils up into the other bulb. Dan explained what was happening and how it worked to them when we bought it but they just looked at him dazed. Last night though, Tom came running in with it exclaiming with excitement that he figured it out. The glass bulbs are a vacuum and water boils at a super low temperature in a vacuum so all it takes in the heat from your fingers to make it boil. It's glass because it has to hold the pressure of the world out and plastic probably wouldn't be able to do that. He had always been irritated that it was glass and breakable. Now, where did he learn that?! Last week, I got an awesome book called "Physics for Entertainment". It's a book of short and entertaining stories explaining physics concepts. It isn't a book you would study, just an interesting book to have laying around to peruse when you have a few minutes to kill. I was doing that one afternoon and was laughing at one of the stories and told it to the boys. The information had been rolling around in their heads for days and when and example came up in real life, they put the story with the example and VIOLA! They had learned something.
Crazy isn't it?! See, this "unschooling" thing can be a lot harder than people think. We have a lot of learning to do so that reading, writing, and discussing is something that is natural in our home. They learn about the world around them because we are all actively in it on a twenty-four hour basis. We are reading, watching, experiencing all the time. And we actually talk to each other. I think that is the biggest key. So many families I see around town just aren't talking to their kids. When we are out, I actually take down notes of things to look up and understand more fully later in front of my kids. And now they are doing it too. I don't make them take notes. I model the behavior I think I want them emulate. We can't know the answers to everything, but we can attempt to get more information. So when we are out and about, the zoo, the museum, the grocery store, out to dinner with a tv on in the corner, if there is something we don't understand, we ask questions. And if the questions can't be answered, we make a note to look it up on the internet later or ask someone about it. An example, we were watching an old movie that took place on an aircraft carrier. In the background, there were people on the deck with different colored shirts. We were curious what that was all about. Uncle John was in the Navy, maybe he knows. The next time we see him, it's the first thing the boys ask about, which launches into an discussion about life on an aircraft carrier from someone who has been there. Pretty cool. Those stories were later translated and asked about of a retired Navy guy at the Air Museum in Palm Springs who was in World War II. They guy was impressed about how much they understood and the questions they had for him, especially since they stood there and talked for over an hour.
Anyway, had to write about the process around here. I know many of my family members are concerned about how we learn since we don't do school. Bottom line, it's simple but I lot harder to achieve than just reading through textbooks and filling in multiple choice tests.
